Gentlemen, Did You Forget Your Manners—or Just Your Wife?
This morning, TK and I did something we love to do—we went to Chick-fil-A for breakfast. Nothing fancy, just a first-time Saturday breakfast date at the new local spot. But between the hash browns and the chicken minis, a conversation that’s been simmering for months finally boiled over:
Why don’t men introduce their wives, girlfriends, or partners anymore?
Seriously, what’s going on here?
I can’t tell you how many times TK and I have found ourselves standing there in the most awkward silence while a man is happily chatting away, yet completely “forgets” to introduce the woman standing next to him. At some point, TK and I just lock eyes, give each other that knowing look, and one of us finally says, “Hi, I’m Laura” or “Hi, I’m TK,” just to break the ice. Because apparently, basic courtesy has gone out the way of Blockbuster Video.
Where Did the Gentleman Go?
Back in the day, men practically tripped over themselves to introduce their lady. It wasn’t just about courtesy, it was about pride. “This is my wife.” “This is my girlfriend.” It was a statement. A mark of respect. A little nod that said, She’s important to me, and I want you to know her.
Now? Too many men act like their partner is just some accessory they forgot to mention, like a coat draped over their arm. And it leaves me wondering:
Are men really this clueless?
Or do they just not care?
Is it arrogance—thinking they’re too important to bother?
Or is this some weird new cultural thing, especially in communities like the military, where TK and I see it most often?
Whatever it is, it doesn’t feel good. And let’s be real, it doesn’t look good either.
Respect Is the Real Issue
At its core, this is about respect. When a man fails to introduce his partner, he’s sending a quiet (but very loud) message: You’re not worth mentioning.
That might not be what he means, but it’s what comes across. And in today’s world, where women are constantly fighting to be seen, valued, and respected, it’s just one more little jab that says, “You’re not front and center.”
Ladies—don’t settle for being the afterthought.
Dudes, Stop Being Ass Clowns
Yes, I said it. Enough already. Stop being ass clowns and bring back chivalry. Bring back the gentleman who knew that introducing his partner wasn’t just good manners,it was a flex. It said, I’m proud she’s with me.
Because here’s the truth: when you introduce your partner, you’re elevating her. You’re honoring her. And in return, you’re showing the world that you’ve got class, common sense, and dare I say it—style.
A Call to Action
So men, here’s your checklist:
See your wife, girlfriend, or partner standing next to you?
Open your mouth.
Say her name.
Introduce her like the queen she is.
It’s that simple. No medal ceremony required. No manual. Just basic human decency.
Because trust me, when you don’t, everyone notices. And not in the “wow, what a cool guy” way. More like in the “did his mama forget to raise him?” way.
So TK and I will keep doing what we do, locking eyes, laughing, and making our own introductions when men forget. But guys, do us all a favor: don’t leave us hanging. Bring back the gentleman. Bring back respect. And for the love of waffle fries—introduce your lady.